Why do I keep going limp with my partner when I find her to be very sexy?

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Could be inexperience, could be past trauma.

In my case it was trauma. One day when I was around nine, my babysitter’s husband came home early and raped her in front of me. To this day I have difficulty with intimacy. It took 2 years of therapy to just get to the point where I could realize the significance of that event.

I hope in your case you just need a few more encounters.