Do men still do the pursuing in starting a new relationship it's been 15 years since dating and I don't want to come on too strong?

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Man I wish I had a good answer for you. It’s all over the place. There’s one girl I started going out with recently that won’t really respond if I initiate. She has to initiate, and I just have to accept whatever she throws out there.

I don’t even know what pursuing means anymore. Everything’s just so nuts.