I’ve dated a few shallow women, and this is a problem that never goes away. You want to talk about deeper things but they only will ever have a surface-level appreciation for those things.
Making a relationship work involves figuring out how to get what you need from this person while figuring out how to give them what they need.
With someone that is shallow, you have to dumb everything down. Say things that come off the top of your head with very little filter. Especially if it’s risque or a little weird. She’ll find it hilarious.