Is it wrong for me to call this girl out for being hypocritical?

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You need to learn how to understand and appreciate female psychology.

Women (guys too, but women more strongly) are ruled by their emotions. Emotion is a place in the brain. It’s one of the many ways in which we think. Specifically, it does not answer to weaksauce bullshit “rational” arguments.

You might think you have critical unique insight on how the girl was thinking when she was “dressing really slutty and flirting with guys constantly,” but really it was you not really appreciating what the true purpose of a party is.

Parties are where you let everything go and just do what you want to do. Newsflash, I hope this doesn’t blow your mind up too hard, but women actually like sex! Imagine that! Yeah! Who would have thought?

But the thing about sex is, you have to want it the way you want it, nobody actually wants to be raped. If she’s flirting with all the guys there, looking for someone to make a real connection with, and you sit there and call her a slut for it, then you are categorically not the kind of guy she’s looking to have sex with. In fact, it’s pretty clear to see that you were intimidated by her actions, and are justifying your actions after the fact.

She is in charge of who she has sex with. Not you. All you’re doing here is trying to tell her who she should be having sex with or not. That’s not the way feminism works. She picks, not you.

Feminism destroys traditional gender norms, and you’re only trying to reinforce them. She’s a feminist, and you’re just trying to bring her under your thumb.

Interact with her without any preconceived notions of how she should act, and she might actually take you seriously. And, don’t shoot your load off just yet, she might actually want to sleep with you.