Is it difficult for decent men to get a girlfriend?

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You need to get comfortable with displaying your sexuality. If women don’t find you fun to interact with sexually then they’re not going to want to interact with you sexually. I think society conditions most guys to hide their sexualities in the name of being “nice guys,” but the way they go about it just does them a disservice.

Displaying your sexuality is fine when you do it appropriately. So, let’s say you’re interacting with a girl, and something she does makes you horny. You need to communicate that to her. One way you might think of doing that is to whip out your sausage and waggle it at her.

That’s not an appropriate thing to do, you guys don’t have that kind of relationship. (yet) So pull it back. Instead of showing her, maybe try telling her. “You’re making me really hard right now.” Much, much better than whipping out your johnson, but still inappropriate. How is she supposed to respond to that?

You need to give her space to respond back. You don’t want to assault her with your urges. You need to be delicate in your presentation of what she’s doing to you. The fewer words the better.

“Damn girl, do that again.”

Perfect. She can either laugh it off or step it up. Take whatever it is you want to tell her, find a way to make it fun, and then find the courage to actually say it to her. Focus less on what you want and more on how she would want to hear it.

It’s difficult, but that very difficulty is what makes it fun and interesting for women. Most guys are dull, selfish and annoying. Don’t be most guys.