How can I be attractive if I'm not pretty?

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I have to echo Michelle here.

The reality is that being attractive takes an awful lot of work and doesn’t really make you any happier. Building healthy habits is all that’s really needed here in order to move the needle as far as it really needs to go. Habits are interesting things, you can keep refining them. Eventually you’ll have the kind of body you’ll want, but it’ll also be paired with a strong, healthy mind too. That’s what’s really sexy about people.

For example, I need to control my food intake, but I really like food. So what I’ve had to do is to just eat less of what I really like. A few bites of rice instead of the whole thing. I might only eat the fish part of a fish taco, or only one of the taco shells. It took me many years to develop this kind of restraint with food.

Sometimes I fail and eat the whole plate. This is fine because I’m working in the direction of eating less and less.

Habits are the foundation of a great life. Pay close attention to them.