What should I do if a girl rejects a surprise flower from me?

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Wait until after the class to give it to her, don’t put her on the spot in front of her friends and make a scene, unless she’s indicated that she likes that sort of thing. That you’re asking indicates that you don’t really have any idea how she’s going to take a move like that.

So just play it safe. Guys watch movies and the movies teach them that big huge gestures are more meaningful than small ones. But really they’re not. What they are mostly is a giant pain in the ass for women to deal with.

Wait for her after the class ends and give it to her then, tell her you’ve been thinking about her and you’d like to reconnect. If you can keep it short, upbeat, and relaxed, you have the best chance of it coming across as thoughtful and not creepy and weird.