How do I keep a guy interested in me for long?

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Find someone closer that you can meet in person. Long distance relationships are not relationships. You might find the lack of sex to be interesting, safe, and intellectually stimulating, but most guys will not feel the same.

I once got to know this hot older lady online. We wound up writing a sex story together, our characters were kind of like Marvel mutants, I was a “hot” one and she was a “cold” one, they started off in prison together, and the only goal with the story was to flirt and eventually have sex.

It was fun for a few days but by the end I was sooo fucking bored with it and just wanted to meet in person. I eventually was just phoning it in, writing cheap schlock just to move the plot forward so I could get her out of my hair. I stopped contacting her afterwards, over her protests. I was willing to drive up and meet her but was too inexperienced and unsure of myself to actually do something like that.

I’m now super careful about flirting online, because I don’t want to give anyone the impression that I’m open to a relationship there.

Go outside and play. :-)