I think I am limerent to one guy from my office. Should I discuss this limerence with my boyfriend? Will he not feel bad about me having feelings for someone else?

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If he is a ‘normal’ boyfriend, I would just keep your feelings to yourself, because he almost certainly won’t understand them, even if he does have the good sense to not get immediately and caustically jealous.

I personally would struggle to not get passively-aggressively jealous in this situation. I would be likely to bring it up in contexts where it doesn’t belong. Like if you complain about something I do, I might hit back with, “well, go spend some time with your new limerick boyfriend, I’m sure he’ll be perfectly perfect and you’ll never have any problems! And he could read you bad poetry!” Well maybe not that bad, but you get my drift.

Ideally you could trust your boyfriend to be able to gracefully handle something like this, in reality most guys and most relationships are not strong enough for something like this to not be an immediate and huge Big Deal.