Generally a girl will be able to tell that you like her, though that’s only one part of the equation for them. They want to know what you want from them. Just dating? Sex? Friendship leading up to either of the above? Are you marriage and family-minded? Serious contenders for a lady’s affections will have a plan for how their new lady will fit into their lives, and aren’t afraid to talk about it with her. Morons will just do anything to gain her attention.
I loved the opening scene in True Romance. Christian Slater is sitting next to a pretty blonde girl at a bar. He starts telling her about this Sonny Chiba marathon that he’s about to go to. She asks, “You want to take me to a kung fu movie?” Her tone indicated that she wasn’t amused. His response is priceless. “No, I want to take you to three kung fu movies.”
That’s a man that knows his intentions.