Would being a super hot transgender woman help dating?

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A2A, I usually stick to heteronormative dating because I am heteronormative, and just hope my advice translates well enough to non-heteronormative that they can find it useful. But at the moment I’m trying to answer A2As that I’d usually pass on, so I’ll bite.

Being ‘hot’ means that you either naturally have or are willing to work to achieve the constellation of physical traits that attract other heteronormative men. Clean, symmetrical features, augmenting your figure to emphasize bust and butt, applying makeup in the ‘traditional’ goal of enlarging the perceived size of the eyes and smoothing away blemishes.

If you weren’t born with it, and most people aren’t, then if you want to look hot, you have to work at it. But really, what is it buying you? Do you really want to attract the kinds of guys that are most likely to have the kinds of hair-trigger tempers that trigger violence when they find out that you weren’t born with the set of equipment they were expecting?

Because those are the kinds of guys who have no compunctions about approaching hot women.

If you want to be a girl, I’d say go right ahead, I’m not going to judge you for it, but unless you have a fetish about it, stay away from heteronormative dating. It’s dangerous even for women that do have the ‘right’ equipment.