I told her I wanted to kiss her and she said no (denied). But some time later asked me to have some drinks with her. Maybe she's thinking about it?

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It’s rare that two people feel exactly the same way about each other at exactly the same time. Also with women a lot of times mixed feelings are the norm rather than the exception. She won’t know whether you are someone she can fall in love with until she falls in love with you.

Best bet is to work on your patience and understanding. She’ll come around, it might take awhile though.

What you do want to figure out is whether the two of you are actually physically compatible. If you guys are touchy-feely though then I wouldn’t worry about it. If she doesn’t let you touch her at all, then you’re probably better off moving on at this point. Or at least just not expecting anything to ever happen with her. Keep her as a friend but look elsewhere for romance.

You really don’t want to try to make a relationship work when sexual attraction just isn’t there for one partner.