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What do I do if I like a girl and she likes me back but she doesn't know if its romantic?

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Take her hand, look deep into her eyes, and then slowly move in for a kiss.

Romance starts with bold moves on the part of the guy. The lady either accepts or rejects, and if she rejects, it’s the guy’s duty to accept rejection gracefully. So if she turns her head away when you try to kiss her, just keep holding her hand, turn away so you’re not facing her, and start talking to her.

You should have done the above right after she said, “Deal.” That was the perfect moment to have tried something like that. Now you have to create another moment in which to make another move. The idea here is to create intimacy. You are talking about your feelings for each other and she’s enjoying it. Eventually it will just feel right. That’s when you take her hand, look into her eyes, and move in.

If you can keep being bold, dynamic, and courageous, then you can keep creating intimate moments. So if something doesn’t work the first time, say the intimacy was ruined by some idiot interrupting you, handle it gracefully and bide your time until you can create another moment.

Romance has a rhythm. You don’t want to be ‘on’ all the time. Learn to relax, let the tension dissipate a little, then pick it back up by doing something different and unique. Keep surprising her with little things.

If you do it right she’ll be begging for your attention and kisses.