Every time a girl looks at me or shows signs of interest I disregard it why do I feel like this?

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Romance takes time to figure out. The first thing you have to do is to become alive to it. It’s like waking up from a long sleep. This happens the first time you return the signs of interest, and the two of you have a wonderful interaction. Suddenly, emotional centers in your brain that were dormant for years become active.

It’s heady and extremely addictive. But it takes courage to take that first step.

Here’s a secret. It only really works if you’re afraid of it. So locate what you’re afraid to do with someone else that you’re attracted to, and push through the fear to do it anyway. That’s how you grow.