Would you be disappointed if your second date chose to meet at a gross restaurant if you are looking for a man to spoil and romance you?

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I asked this girl out once on Facebook. She seemed like she had it all together. I let her pick the restaurant, and when I saw what she had picked, I was prepared for a $100+ evening. I put on a suit and tie and drove the few miles to pick her up.

When I got there she didn’t pick up the phone. After 15 minutes I walked to the bar / restaurant next door and texted her saying I’ll be there for another half hour. Shortly before I call it a night, she texted me back.

When she got to the bar, she looked like she had just gotten out of bed, because she did. She had fallen asleep and her phone failed to wake her up. I didn’t feel like taking her to the restaurant so we just ordered at the bar we were at. Conversation was awkward because she had just gotten out of bed and I was still annoyed.

We walked over to her place after we ate and her place was a real mess. I watched her straighten up and tried to make conversation. The one thing that could have salvaged the date was if she was prepared to get physical, but after an hour of being there she gave me no signals at all.

I never asked for date two.

Point I’m trying to make here is, it’s a two-way street. I am very much that guy who will wine and dine you and make you feel super special. The problem is, most women just don’t seem to be looking for that. Or if they are, they’re not interested in being the kind of girl that guys spoil.

I honestly don’t know where to find those girls anymore. Show up to a date in a suit and tie these days and it’s like you bounced out of the fifties!