A2A, I guess you just pick it up. I usually credit this in my life to my time in the military, which is a lot like a cult when you think about it. But I was already pretty grown by the time I did that.
I guess most people don’t have all that great of a grasp on how other people besides who they have a lot of experience with act. I’ve participated in a lot of web forums over the years, I saw a lot of people with some pretty big blind spots out there.