Was there a question there? Just relax, pick the boy you seem to like the most, and make him take you out on a real date. Doesn’t have to be too fancy, dinner at Olive Garden would be great. Decide at the end of the date if you want to see him again. Don’t let him have sex with you if you aren’t comfortable with the idea, and if they try to guilt you into sleeping with them before you’re ready, dump them and find a more respectful guy.
Just take it slow and easy and you’ll have the boys eating out of your hand.