I'm unloveable, period. What drugs should I take to deal with the pain?

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Approaches mostly only work if you’re conventionally attractive or willing to spend months learning the skill of pickup.

Your problem is that you are mostly approaching in a manner that screams out to women, “judge me on the basis of my sexual appeal!” Which, as a five foot guy who I would guess probably could do with some coaching on managing his personal appearance, isn’t getting you anywhere.

I personally hate dating. Trying to make a romantic / sexual connection with women I’ve just met just doesn’t work for me, albeit for different reasons than why it doesn’t work for you. I might try it again in the future, but for now I’ve focused on building the romantic connection with a girl I’m already friendly with. It’s working really well for me at the moment.

The reason I like this approach is because there are a lot of women that are just as sick of dating as I am. The main downside is that you never really know where you stand with a girl until you do. Also the sexual connection isn’t there upfront, and might not be there for awhile. I used to think that sexual attraction was either there or not there, like it was written in stone in your DNA or something. Now I think that’s just mostly nonsense, and that you can create eroticism with pretty much anyone if you can be open to it.

As for drugs, you might try cocaine. There’s a reason it’s the drug of choice for lawyers.