If a woman verbally abuses a man using gendered slurs, is she the primary victim? Would it be victim blaming to call out her behaviour?

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I was walking back from eating dinner to my ridiculously nice apartment building nestled right in the heart of the city. I was walking through the lobby, and I came across this gorgeous black girl that was absolutely stacked. We make eye contact as we pass each other in the lobby. The guys she was w