My boyfriend always tell me that I'm beautiful even when sometimes I feel I’m not. Is it truly what he means?

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How you feel and how you look are two completely different things. You can feel horrible and ugly and still look like a million bucks.

Imagine eating the same thing every day. You’re going to get real good at noticing little differences between that thing. That’s what it’s like looking at yourself every day. Maybe your makeup isn’t quite right one day, that’s what you’re going to remember every time you look at yourself. Enough little ‘wrong’ things about it and suddenly you feel like total crap.

But nobody else can see these things about you, because they’re not paying attention to them the same way you are. Not even your husband, who wakes up next to you every day, is going to know the finer points of your day-to-day. It’s entirely possible for him to see you at your messiest and still see the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen.

Ask yourself how you want him to react. Let’s say you really were a mess. How would you want him to deal with that? If you really don’t want him to tell you that you’re beautiful, you might want to sit him down and have a heart to heart. But, I gotta say, most girls would kill to have such an attentive guy.