How do I talk to girls?

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Attractiveness tends to crowd everything else in the brain out. The stakes seem that much higher. If you drew a line on the ground and walked on it, you’d find it much harder to walk on that same line fifty feet up on a two-foot-wide platform. Even though the task is just as easy, it seems harder because the consequences for failing are so much higher. The brain, just fine with the line on the ground, only tends to see the fifty foot drop when on the platform. As such, brain doesn’t brain normally when there’s a beautiful, attractive person in front of you.

One thing you might do is just accept that you’re going to act differently and push through anyway. If you can’t think of anything smart to say, say something goofy. You could even say something like, “I’m sorry, but you’re so hot it’s making me stupid.” Lol.

Another thing you could do is just not consider those kinds of girls part of your dating pool. Talk to less attractive girls that don’t make you lose your head. Work on building a relationship rather than scoring with a hot chick.