How can I meet girls in public places?

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You have to meet girls in public places because girls you don’t know aren’t just going go to private places with you so you can meet them. There’s literally no other place you can meet new girls.

So, the answer to this is going to depend on your social situation. Do you have a group of friends you hang out with regularly? Or are you more of a loner?

If you have a group of friends, then you can take advantage of that by inviting another group of friends to come talk to yours. This is an easy, low-stress way to break the ice with lots of new people. You don’t have to wait for new people to come around to your group naturally, you can just invite them yourself.

If you’re a loner, you can join a group conversation. As you get comfortable with the group, you might pair off with someone you like for a deeper conversation.

If you’re a loner, you can find other loners who are female and talk to them. This is probably the most difficult way to do it, because girls often get skittish about strange guys for good reason. But if you’re really introverted like me, then it could be your only choice.

Find someplace you go a lot. For me it was a coffee shop that I would go to most days in the week. Start loosening up your social muscles by talking to the people that work there or that you’re not interested in romantically. Once you’re feeling social, you can try approaching someone. Always approach from the front, smile, say hi, and ask a question.

Your conversations is going to ultimately be limited by how much time you guys can reasonably spend standing or sitting there talking. Could be a long time, could be just a minute. What you’re looking for in conversations with women you’re romantically interested is for them to start flirting with you. If they’re interested they’re going to throw out signals. If they are doing this then you can try asking them out. Wait until you’re saying goodbye, say that you like talking to them and you would like to get to know them better, can you take them out to dinner sometime?