Relax and realize the power you have to define exactly what happens and at what speed. Guys are socialized to be forward and assertive. Most are going to do that just because that’s how they’ve been taught to since they were little. Ladies have a lot of power and say, but it’s like the old saying, freedom of the press only belongs to those who own a press. Meaning that if you want the ability to define how things are between the two of you, you’re going to have to speak up about it and let him know what you want. He can’t read your mind.