When I was in high school / college, and still today, I couldn’t keep my eyes off of the beautiful women I fancied. Which seems strange to me because I don’t have a high sex drive. I was just drinking in their beauty. I couldn’t actually talk to them or anything, my head was too much in my books and not enough in the world around me.
I found out much later when I actually started paying attention to girls and their signals and stuff that most of the girls I fancied actually fancied me back. Not that I could have done anything with that information.
I’d like to say school is a place of discovery, but really we’re all still just children. It really is best to just focus on your studies. If you can find a good boyfriend, great, but there are definite trade-offs to marrying your college sweetheart. Few of those relationships last, as romantic as they sound.