Why is a fit male physique seen as attractive even when being “fat” would convey that he is better able to provide for himself and potential mates?

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A fit male physique is seen as attractive mostly by other guys.

The biggest trend these days in male attractiveness is “dad bod.” Once upon a time, you did sports or whatever when you were younger, but now you’ve got more important things to worry about, so you’re a bit chubbier. You know how to keep it in line, though, so you’re not full-on fat. You look like a dad, and dads are sexy.

Most of the really attractive women I’ve met seriously distrust overly fit or muscular men. Wanting to stand out from other guys in such a fashion is seen as a potential red flag pointing to immaturity.