Spiritual

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If God is omnipotent, would that mean He would be able to create a universe with all the benefits of hardship, such as spiritual growth, without actually including hardship?
Can people accidentally sin in heaven?
Could god give us some kind of power?
Will I realize it when I shed my cloak of flesh and bone? How do you know when you go from the material world into the spiritual world? Can metaphysics "call down" the spiritual world and integrate it with what we have here?
How could God be so uncaring as to not let dead forever alones get spouses in heaven? If we were cheated out of love in this life then we certainly deserve it in the next. I am talking about love, not sex.
Since all souls are transparent, and as I understand it, there is no deception for the purpose of deceiving. Is that the main common denominator in the afterlife? Everyone has to tell the truth.
If there is an afterlife, what form would one take in it, and how would one recognise others in it?
I want to repent so I don't go to hell, but I don't actually want to repent. I've tried reading the Bible, it doesn't change me. What should I do?